How do I ask a girl out?

How do I ask a girl out?

It is usually best to become friends with the girl first. Try getting to know her by talking to her at the places you see her – school, sports practice, religious services, etc. Find a common interest to talk to her about, such as music, movies or TV shows, or a hobby you share. Show her that you are interested in her by asking her about her interests, life, and goals.

Be patient! The process of getting to know someone well enough to ask them on a date can be painfully slow, but a strong foundation of friendship will produce better results in the long run, and you may find out from talking to her that you don’t want to ask her out after all

Actually asking her out is kind of like pulling off a Band-Aid; you just have to do it. Try to relax and be casual (even though you will probably be nervous – but she doesn’t have to know that!), and ask her to do an activity you both might enjoy, an activity doesn’t put too much pressure on you both to talk the whole time.

If she says no, try not to take it too personally, and remember that there could be a number of reasons she doesn’t want to go. Though you might feel awkward around her the next time you see her, it probably wasn’t easy for her to say no, and she might even feel somewhat guilty. Identify the things you like about the girl you asked out, and look for other girls you know who possess those qualities.

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